It’s Complicated

In Le Nozze di Figaro, the members of the Count’s manor prepare for the wedding of servants Figaro and Susanna. A whirlwind of hijinks adds a level of chaos to the eventful day.

Many of the ensuing complications arise due to a lack of clear communication. Ask students to think about about a complicated conversation they need to have with someone in their life. Prompt students to reflect on the tips listed below:

• Choose the right time and place to talk. Try to find someplace quiet where you can focus on the conversation at hand.
• Be aware of your body. Take deep breaths during the conversation, and work to keep your body relaxed as you listen.
• Write things down. Make a list in advance of the topics you would like to cover in your conversation and take notes on what the others have to say.
• Choose empathy! Work to assume the best intentions from the other person involved. If
  the conversation doesn’t go as planned, be easy on yourself and others. Take a break and try again.